Being Proud

I realize i have not written in a long time, and i feel ashamed. But that is not the purpose of this topic. There are two different connotations to being proud - the bad kind and the good kind. One is where you're too proud, considered to be where you don't allow change kind of proud (like in spanish that movie about honor vs love?): i can't explain it right. The other type is when you finish something magnificent and feel super proud of yourself (guess who finished their EE? this chick!) why does it, in essence have the same feeling, but two different outcomes? Just a thought.